On February 20, 2010 Tiger Woods issued a formal apology for his recent actions and for events that have come into light. Therapist Al Heystek talks with WZZM 13 about sex addiction. Watch this news report about sex addiction
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Conscious Relationship: The Fire of Uncertainty
August 9, 2009
Everything in the universe is on fire. I’m on fire. You’re on fire. The chair you’re sitting in is on fire. At the quantum level, everything that we’re so comfortable with as “solid matter” is really not matter at all. It’s energy. And this energy… continue reading Conscious Relationship: The Fire of Uncertainty
Addiction
July 24, 2009
Our nation’s office of Drug Control Policy has designated September 2004 as National Alcohol and Drug Addiction Recovery month. According to publications produced by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services in 2002: • “An estimated 22 million Americans age 12 or older were… continue reading Addiction
Violence: a Social Toxin
July 23, 2009
I’m concerned about how parents trivialize violent media. The proverbial argument that not all kids who play violent video games commit violent acts is a short-sighted rationalization for not limiting children’s exposure to violent media. Psychologist James Gabarino, Ph.D., discusses how violent media is a… continue reading Violence: a Social Toxin
Violent Acts Reflect Broader Issues
July 23, 2009
In July, the Grand Rapids community was witness to four lives lost to domestic violence. Three slayings and one suicide asked families, schools, churches, neighborhoods and the community at large to make sense of the violence around them. Historically, we have tried to convince ourselves… continue reading Violent Acts Reflect Broader Issues
Sexual Addiction – Shocking and Devastating
July 1, 2009
A short time ago, the Grand Rapids Press reported on the “shocking and devastating” arrest of 21 men caught in our community during a single sex sting. As therapists who specialize in working with men on a variety of issues including sexual addiction, we’re afraid… continue reading Sexual Addiction – Shocking and Devastating
People With Drug Problems Need Help, Not Long Jail Sentences
June 27, 2009
Without a doubt, it is extremely disturbing that the former head of Calvin College’s criminal justice program now faces charges of possession with intent to deliver cocaine, as reported by The Press on June 29. The college and the Grand Rapids community where he has… continue reading People With Drug Problems Need Help, Not Long Jail Sentences
Before You Tie the Knot
May 26, 2009
Top five questions couples should ask themselves – and each other – before getting married. 1. Do you have a firm sense of who you are as an individual? Does your partner have an equally mature understanding of who he is? Marriage is more than… continue reading Before You Tie the Knot
Gender – Not Race – is Biggest Factor in Violent Behavior
May 23, 2009
Since The Grand Rapids Press featured an article on black men killing black men, people have weighed in with their analyses of the problem. They’ve presented a myriad of causes such as poor education, poverty, ineffective parenting, racism, etc., but the most common denominator, male… continue reading Gender – Not Race – is Biggest Factor in Violent Behavior
